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The "Hot Woman" situation | Cupidiffy

Hot women have been deprived of genuine interest. Guys act creepy and fake around them. They are rarely encountered by men willing to bring to the surface their real potentials. Because all that goes through his mind is "the hit". And trust me, that's a very wrong drive for wooing women. She builds her defenses. Far away from reach, to keep these jerks off.

To make matters worse they are rewarded for being fake, and consequently placed on pedestal of false worship which obviously fades away after "the hit". And she knows her place on the pedestal is temporary, so she enjoys her reward while it lasts. Giving up on the thoughts of genuine interests.

Low self esteem guys are willing to accept any of her behavior just for her looks. They buy her expensive things, and kiss her a$s because they feel lucky just being in her company. She considers their hand outs unfulfilling and shallow. This is not what she want, but what's she supposed to do but conform to this…

Friends With Benefit (Lara)

This is a guest post from Lara of mahogany, a site dedicated everything female. Lara is a young twisted writer with kinky dirty thoughts. When she is not writing, reading and having dirty thoughts she gets her satisfaction by hitting up a blunt, and listening to music.

And because he was her friend as well as her lover, they touched each other in physical and emotional places, he was her only lover. No one would touch her in places she never knew existed neither would she ever succumb to the desires of other men, except one whom she could freely give all her erotic desires to.

And he loved her. Ooh, her laughter reminiscent with friendship, inkling teases with her butt, or a grope of touch in awkward private places. Her soul belonged to him, a flicker of an innocent lash, ready to do his will. Yes, she bowed, when he towered words upon her. Nasty words one would shudder at, yet she bowed and although she was ready to be his slave, she owned him too.

When she makes his body tremble, she …

How To: Dealing with Melancholy | Cupidiffy

Melancholy is a temperament synonymous to desolation, sadness and sorrow. It can easily be said to be a pensive sadness with no obvious reason, therefore differentiating melancholy from depression, which is a mental response to external stress inducing factors. Melancholy comes from inside and the causes are inherent. The causes are most biological, ranging from chemical imbalances in the brain, to genetics. It has also been associated with bipolar disorder 1 & 2.

A melancholic person is most likely to find difficulties reacting to pleasant events. He/She may also experience unusually obvious peak in depression, with no logical reason. You should also look out for occasional thoughts of suicide as it's also a symptom of melancholy.
Although, as mentioned earlier melancholy is mostly caused by biological factors, the social treatment is quite effective at containing it. Having an active social life gives a reasonable head-start for the containment and can help combat the adver…

Using Negatives to make better Pictures (Negs) | Cupidiffy

If used correctly, negative comments can be very powerful in an advantageous manner. Negs are comments directed at comments, that appear nice enough on the surface, but mean spirited in their meaning.
For example, tell a girl she reminds you of your baby sister. We have all heard the saying before, “You’re like a brother to me.” We all know how much of a vibe killer the "brother" word is coming from a female you're attracted to. It's called the "brother zone". Turn the tables on her instead.

Telling the her she reminds you of your baby sister is essentially telling her that she is immature, you are not so into her, and she is a pain in your ass. It depends on how you come across when you say it. If you come across in a fun, joking matter, you are role playing. If you come across saying she reminds you of a sister, therefore you are not attracted to her, it is a neg.

My favorite neg is to tell the women…